Hashcat settings - explanation

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I want to ask you. I found some video wehere The-Distribution-Which-Does-Not-Handle-OpenCL-Well (Kali) linux break WPA2. I'm interested in ethical hacking and I want to learn it. 

As you can see my english is not verry good, I have a problem to understand english tutorials.

I need to help set up mask in hashcat. I don't undrestand how to set up mode 6 wordlist + rules.

Let's say that my password is "ttaabbccBI1*" I created wordlist where is ttaabbcc, BI, 123456789, *,?=+;

I used hashcat -m 2500 -a 6 something.hccapx wordlist.txt ?d?d?s

and password was not found.

Can you tell me something about settings in simply english ?

I will reward you

Thank You